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  • I'm Tiffany, the voice behind The Perfect Porridge. I'm born and raised a Carolina girl and I've traveled all over the world. Now, I'm taking New York City by storm.

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Should I Confront Him?

QUESTION – Hi Tiffany! I’m just going to get right into it. I’ve been feeling uneasy and unappreciated lately. I do SO much for him because I love him. But the way that he talks to me nowadays versus the way he addresses other woman bothers me. I’m not comfortable with him allowing other women … Continue reading

Happy New Year (2015)

A New Day, Another Chance

HAPPY NEW YEAR, EVERYONE! 2015 came before I knew it.You know what they say though: “Time flies when you’re having fun”! I have to admit, last year was an experience. If this year is anything like last year, I cannot wait to see what’s in store for me! But don’t get me wrong, that’s not to … Continue reading

Bucket of Lemons

Lemonade or Fight

Recently I read an article that suggests that as children, we are conditioned to strive for comfort in our adult lives. That notion made me think: I don’t remember ever being taught that mediocracy was something to strive for. I don’t remember my parents and/or siblings telling me that settling for what I had was … Continue reading

5 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

Understanding the opposite sex can be tough. Let’s face it, we don’t always say exactly what we’re feeling! So picture this: you’re dating this guy and things seem to be going great! You have so much in common and the chemistry is amazing. However, something changes out of nowhere. He no longer calls you, he’s always … Continue reading

Try Again!

Don’t Give Up!

Forget the “should’ve”, “could’ve”, “would’ve” and create the change that you’d like to see. Live today, prepare for tomorrow & settle for nothing less than what makes you happy!

Bahamas - Nov. 2013

Great Stirrup Cay + Nassau, Bahamas

From the beautiful white sand beaches to the majestic Atlantis, my recent visit to the Bahamas was definitely one of pleasure. Although this wasn’t my first trip there, it was definitely a new experience for me. We decided to try out a cruise to the Bahamas on the Norwegian Sky Cruise Line. The ship set … Continue reading

Chelsea Market - Outside

Food in the City – Chelsea Market

Sometimes, day-to-day life in New York City involves going from food truck to food truck as you hurriedly venture from point A to point B. This weekend, we wanted to slow down the pace and really enjoy one of the many gems of home – The Chelsea Market. The Chelsea Market is a mixture of … Continue reading

Rooftop View - Santorini, Greece

Flashback: Santorini, Greece!

Just south of Greece’s mainland lies Santorini, Greece. The island is what remains after an enormous volcanic explosion occurred over 3,000 years ago. Today, it is heavily populated with tourist from around the world. Lucky enough for me, I was able to experience its beauty! Approaching the island, I admittedly did not expect much. It … Continue reading

Morning View - Jaco, Costa Rica

Hello Costa Rica!

So my boyfriend and I decided to travel abroad, in an attempt to discover a country in which neither us of had ever seen. We really wanted to experience everything that Costa Rica had to offer…and boy, did we! From the moment that we left New York City and arrived in this beautiful country, we … Continue reading


On my way to work, as I stood in the middle aisle of a packed to capacity bus, I saw a video. Although it was only about five minutes long, the message was powerful and it made me think about who surrounded me at that given moment. The video showed a combination of people, all … Continue reading


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